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Barbados cheat sheet for travellers

Overview Barbados has major main-character energy when it comes to Caribbean getaways. Sure, the white-sand beaches and turquoise waters are the obvious stars but there’s so much more to this island than its postcard looks. If you’re into laid-back vibes with a side of adventure, this is your spot. From wild bus rides that double as a party to jaw-dropping coastal views and rum that’s basically a national treasure, Barbados knows how to show you a good time. Personally, some of my favourite spots are Bathsheba’s rugged coastline, the chilled-out beaches around the south coast, and yes, a good ol’ fish fry in Oistins. In this guide, I’ll walk you through everything you need to know, from the weather and budget to transport options and local tips; basically, all the basics so you can get the most out of your trip! Quick Travel Facts Sky Mood Barbados enjoys a tropical climate, making it a year-round destination for sun-seekers. Located in the windward part of the Caribbean, the island experiences warm temperatures and humidity throughout the year, with average temperatures around 26.8°C (80°F). You can expect consistent weather, with only slight variations between day and night. The dry season, from December to May, offers the best weather for outdoor activities and beach days. However, during the wet season (June to November), expect occasional quick showers throughout the day. These showers are usually brief and won’t disrupt your plans for long. This period also coincides with hurricane season, though Barbados is located slightly south of the typical hurricane path, making direct hits rare. Still, it’s always a good idea to keep an eye on weather forecasts if you’re visiting during this time. Warning: While Barbados’ sunny weather is part of its charm, it’s important to remember that the Caribbean sun can be intense! Make sure to wear sunscreen, reapply regularly, and stay hydrated. To avoid sunburn, try to limit direct sun exposure during peak hours (10 a.m. to 4 p.m.) and seek shade when needed. Protect yourself with a hat, sunglasses, and light clothing to enjoy the sun safely while soaking up the beauty of the island. Getting There Grantley Adams International Airport (BGI) is the main gateway to Barbados, located just 13 kilometers from Bridgetown. There are direct flights to Barbados from major cities in North America, Europe, and neighboring Caribbean islands. For the best view of the island when you land, grab a window seat on the left side of the plane. Visa Most countries do not require a visa for tourism. However, check your specific entry requirements before traveling to ensure you have the correct documents. Your passport must be valid for at least 6 months upon arrival. All travellers need to complete a customs and immigration travel form at least 72 hours prior to arrival, which can be found here. Budget When planning your trip to Barbados, it’s important to keep in mind the cost of living and travel expenses. Barbados is generally known as a luxurious destination, with a higher cost of living compared to many other Caribbean islands. However, it’s still possible to have an enjoyable experience without breaking the bank, depending on your choices. Accommodation: Food: Getting Around: Activities: Tips:You can keep costs low by opting for public transport, street food, and free natural attractions like beaches and hikes. However, if you prefer comfort, you can splurge on luxury accommodations and dining experiences. Most major credit cards are accepted at hotels, restaurants, and larger stores. You can’t rely on your card for everything like you might at home. Keep cash handy for essentials like bus fares, market visits, and shopping from local vendors. I mostly used cash everywhere, pulling out my card only for bigger purchases like a Catamaran Cruise or to withdraw cash. Be aware of any international transaction or ATM fees your bank may charge. Using a multi-currency card like Wise can help reduce fees and allow payments directly in BBD. Transport Getting around Barbados is pretty easy, whether you’re hopping on a bus, renting a car, catching a ride in a mini-bus or ZR van, or even booking a PickUp. The island’s public transport is lively and affordable, but if you want more flexibility, renting a car or arranging a pick-up might be the way to go. From iconic yellow buses to smooth car rides, you’ll be cruising around in no time – just remember, it’s all about island time! Let me get you acquainted with the Bajan transports! Blue Buses – Barbados Transport Board One-way $3.50 BBD These big blue buses with a yellow stripe are running around the major roads around the island. The newest ones are electric and are equipped with WIFI and A/C. Most comfortable public ride but the less exciting. There are three main terminals: Bridgetown: Fairchild Street (across the road from Golden Square Freedom Park) and Princess Alice Highway (not far from Cheapside Market) – at this terminal, the ZR Vans are on the Cheapside Road part and the buses on Princess Alice Highway part. Speightstown: Northern part of the island. The buses stop at the terminal so you can’t miss it. There’s also a smaller sub-terminal in Oistins, on the south coast. It’s about a 5-minute walk from the Fish Market, heading out of the city in the direction of the airport—on the same side of the road as the market Make sure to have the exact amount as you will put the money will go into a box, the driver doesn’t have access to it so you won’t get change back. Mini-buses or Reggae Buses One-way $3.50 BBD The yellow buses with a blue stripe are privately owned and run regularly, stopping at the same bus stops as the blue Transport Board buses. You’ll spot them frequently, and you can simply hop on. Just make sure to check the sign on the windshield at the front of the bus to confirm your route before getting in. You can also ask the conductor before getting

The Ultimate Guide to Solo Travel: Explore Smartly & Safely

Women traveling solo is now a sign of empowerment. More and more bloggers and influencers are sharing their amazing stories, inspiring others to take the leap. But just a few years ago, things were different – solo female travel wasn’t as encouraged, it was considered risky, and it was definitely not the norm. I remember my first trip to Mexico when I was 20. I found myself on a bus to Chichen Itza, surrounded by American and French tourists – mostly families and couples. Their curiosity was endless. Why are you traveling alone? Aren’t you scared? Is it really safe? One mother even told me she would never let her daughter travel to such a place alone. She and her family weren’t leaving their resort except for excursions. To each their own, I thought, but I couldn’t help feeling that it was a shame – to travel so far and not truly experience the country. Ironically, I felt safer walking the streets of that touristy city than I did back home! Since I started my solo journey at 18, I’ve been lucky to have mostly good experiences. While I trust my common sense and gut feelings, I also rely on my trip preparation. Throughout the years, and based on my own experiences, here are some tips I can share with you. Tip 1: Trust Your Instincts Always listen to your gut feelings. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t hesitate to leave or change your plans. This is real! I know some people roll their eyes at this, but it’s a shame – our gut instinct is a natural alarm. So why not trust it? It’s not magic – it’s your brain picking up on something before you fully understand it. That’s why trusting your gut can be a great tool, especially when traveling solo. While in San Francisco, I was on my way to the Mission District to see the famous murals. I took a streetcar, enjoying the ride, when I noticed a man roughly my height. He didn’t look like a creep, but something about his stare and demeanor made me uncomfortable. Something was off. There were few passengers in the streetcar, some elderly women; and at the back of the streetcar, there was this man – massive build, cap backward, tattoos, long white oversized t-shirt, and baggy pants. I didn’t think much of him or the other passengers. My focus was on the one who kept staring. When I got off, I quickly realized the man was following me. To shake him off, I entered a store – only to feel a grasp on my elbow. Before I could react, I turned and saw that the massive man from the streetcar had followed too. However, I didn’t feel insecure! He asked what I was doing around here, he too noticed the guy was following me; I told him I was visiting and wanted to see the murals. He stayed with me for a while making sure the other guy gave up. Not only did he help me avoid trouble, he also showed me where to go, what areas to avoid, and even recommended a great spot for burgers. I don’t remember his name – just how he was dressed – but I’ll never forget his unexpected kindness. Tip 2: Don’t Mention You Are Traveling Solo And Blend In You don’t have to announce that you’re traveling alone. While solo travel is amazing, not everyone needs to know you’re on your own – especially strangers you’ve just met. If someone asks, you can always mention that you’re meeting up with friends later or that you have people expecting you. It is not rude to be cautious while traveling solo! Don’t trust everyone too quickly! Be mindful of what you share, whether in conversation or even on social media. Posting in real-time about your exact location can make you more vulnerable. A little discretion goes a long way in keeping yourself safe while still enjoying your adventure! Avoid standing out as a tourist – try to blend in as much as possible. Research local customs and skip any flashy or ostentatious accessories. Theft can happen anywhere, even in your own city, but dealing with it in a foreign country can be especially stressful and a huge hassle. Losing your passport, money, or important documents abroad can disrupt your trip, so take extra precautions – stay aware of your surroundings, secure your belongings, and have backups of essential documents just in case. Tip 3: Plan Ahead but Stay Flexible Do your homework! Planning your trip is just as exciting as the journey itself – and just as important! While you’re looking for the most beautiful beaches and coolest cities, take a moment to check the safety information too! Research your destination best and worst neighbourhoods, accommodations, and transport options thoroughly. Get familiar with the area you’ll be staying in before you go – check maps, read travel blogs, check guides and look up safety tips. If you’re unsure, ask someone who has been there or look for recommendations online, especially from solo travelers. Learn about local customs, common scams, official taxi companies and emergency contacts – it’s always better to be prepared! Oh and, another thing: a trip will almost never go exactly as planned! Things change, delays happen, and unexpected challenges arise… mother nature likes to mind your business too! But that’s part of the adventure! One thing is for sure – you will develop great problem solving and adaptability skills, learning to navigate situations with confidence and a sense of humor (much needed!). Tip 4: Stay Connected Keep friends or family updated on your whereabouts – it’s pretty basic, but important. At a minimum, share the name of your accommodation, a rough itinerary, and how long you plan to stay. For some more peace of mind, your loved ones can also track your flight status – either through the airline’s website or with website like FlightRadar24.com. With all

Toulouse: France’s Underrated Pink City You Need to Visit

Known as La Ville Rose (aka The Pink City) because of its stunning terracotta buildings, Toulouse is the 4th largest city in France and offers the perfect blend of culture, history, and a laid-back vibe. From its aerospace legacy to the lively cafés that fill the streets, Toulouse has something for everyone. With one of the largest student populations in France, Toulouse is full of youthful energy, keeping the city buzzing – especially in the evenings. I moved there with my mum after graduating at 18. I had applied to several schools in the South of France – my mum is from Marseille with strong Corsican roots – so I thought it would be nice to leave grey Normandy behind for some sun. The school in Toulouse was the first to accept me, so that’s where we moved. I stayed until I left France in 2014. When I say I’m French, people usually think of Paris. And while Paris is undeniably beautiful, I can’t help but feel it’s a bit overrated. Don’t get me wrong – it’s a great city to visit, but it’s definitely not as glamorous as Emily in Paris makes it seem! If you want to experience the true heart of France, you have to leave Paris behind and explore other regions and cities – like Toulouse. The people here (known as Toulousains) are warmer and friendlier than Parisians (I might make some enemies saying this, but let’s be real – the sun definitely helps us relax! lol). Plus, Toulousains have that charming southwestern accent you just won’t hear up north! And just wait until you try our gastronomy – your taste buds are in for a treat! So, without further ado, let me introduce you to our beautiful Ville Rose! A Hidden Gem in Southwestern France Toulouse offers a picturesque setting that will steal your heart at first glance. From the iconic Place du Capitole to the Basilique Saint-Sernin, Toulouse is rich with stunning landmarks that reflect its deep history. The city is also a hub for aviation and aerospace, with Airbus calling it home, blending the old with the new. But it’s not just the sights that make Toulouse special – it’s the atmosphere. The laid-back vibe, especially by the Garonne River or the Canal du Midi, invites you to slow down, sip coffee at one of the many cafés, and take in the beautiful surroundings. Whether you’re wandering through the Marché des Carmes, tasting cassoulet (a traditional southern dish), or simply soaking up the lively ambiance, Toulouse will have something for you. One of the city’s greatest joys is its gastronomy. Not going to lie here, we LOVE food! If you want to try our French way of enjoying a drink or coffee “en terrasse” (on a terrace), this is a good place to be. It’s more than just a casual activity – it’s a cherished cultural tradition. It’s all about slowing down, savoring the moment, and soaking in the ambiance around you Let me take a lil’ break and talk a little bit about how this works, shall I? So, “en terrasse” is not just about the drink, but about the experience itself – a way to unwind, enjoy the company, and embrace the easy going rhythm of life. The French way if you will. But back to our subject: Toulouse’s culinary scene is a true celebration of regional flavors and traditions. From local specialties like cassoulet, foie gras, and the rich, flavorful violet-flavored products (a nod to the city’s iconic flower), it’s a haven for food lovers. The city’s gastronomic offerings are rooted in quality, tradition, and locally sourced ingredients, making it a food lover’s dream. For an authentic experience, head to vibrant markets like Marché Victor Hugo. There, you’ll find fresh, seasonal produce, artisanal products, and gourmet delights unique to the region. Whether you’re indulging in a hearty bowl of cassoulet or savoring the delicate sweetness of violet-flavored treats, Toulouse promises a feast for the senses. Toulouse isn’t just a city of delicious food, it also has a fascinating (and sometimes gore) history that’s deeply intertwined with its culture. Let’s talk about Rue du Taur near Le Capitole. I had to create a city tour for one of my exams at school, so bear with me – I think I remember most of it! This street has quite the story behind it. So, this street’s name is said to come from the Latin word “taurus,” tied to the martyrdom of Saint Saturnin (aka Saint Sernin), the first bishop of Toulouse, who lived in the 3rd century. According to the story, Saint Saturnin, a Christian bishop, when asked by pagan priests to sacrifice an animal to the emperor, Saturnin refused. In retaliation, he was bound to a furious bull and dragged through the streets, from the steps of the Temple of the Capitole (which is now near the Esquirol parking lot) all the way to the place where he died – right in front of what is now the Église Notre-Dame-du-Taur – nice, right?! The Église Notre-Dame-du-Taur was built on the very spot where the martyr’s body was released from the bull. Up until the 18th century, the street was known simply as “Grande Rue,” but it was officially renamed Rue du Taur in honor of the tragic event that occurred there. Today, Rue du Taur is a charming, bustling street. It’s fascinating how history can be hidden in plain sight, right under our feet, while we go about our day without giving it a second thought. Now, let’s not forget the city’s passion for rugby. Toulouse is a rugby powerhouse, with the Stade Toulousain being one of the most successful and beloved rugby teams in France (not biased at all… but hey! they’ve won numerous major titles both in France and Europe…). The city’s love for the sport runs deep, and game days are filled with energy, with fans showing their undying support for their local heroes. Whether you’re a

Essential Tips for Traveling in France: What You Need to Know

Visiting France for the first time? Get ready for stunning architecture, world-class cuisine, and a deep cultural experience. But before you pack your bags, there are a few things to keep in mind to make your trip smoother. From understanding local etiquette to navigating public transport and knowing when to dine, these essential tips will help you explore France like a pro. Whether you’re strolling through Paris, enjoying the sun in the South, or discovering hidden gems, here’s everything you need to know before you go! 1. Language & Cultural Norms When traveling to France, understanding the language and cultural norms will enrich your experience and help you feel at ease. French is the official language, and it’s spoken throughout the country, although regional languages like Breton, Occitan, and Alsatian are still in use in some areas. We take pride in our language, and it’s considered respectful to greet people in French, even if you only know basic phrases. While some people speak a bit of English in tourist areas, most don’t at all, especially in smaller shops or markets. Google Translate or a translation app can be helpful but learning a few basic phrases will be appreciated: Bonjour (Hello) Excusez-moi (Excuse me) Je suis désolé (I’m sorry) Parlez-vous anglais? (Do you speak English?) Bonsoir (Good evening) Merci (Thank you) Quick French Lesson on the pronouns “tu” and “vous” The Informal Pronoun “Tu” is the informal version of “you” and is used in casual or familiar situations. It’s commonly used with friends, family members, colleagues (when you have a close relationship), and children. If you’re speaking to someone of your own age or younger, or to someone with whom you have a relaxed relationship, “tu” is generally acceptable. In some regions of France, like the South, “tu” is used more freely even among people who don’t know each other well. The Formal Pronoun “Vous,” is the more formal and respectful form of “you.” It is used to show respect, politeness, or distance, and it’s the version you should use when speaking to people you don’t know well, or to someone in a position of authority (like teachers, bosses, or elderly people). You will also use “vous” when addressing a group of people, regardless of how well you know them. In the workplace, especially in professional settings, using “vous” is expected unless you are invited to use “tu” by the other person. When to Switch If someone asks you “On peut se tutoyer?” (Can we use “tu”?), it means they’re comfortable enough to switch to the informal version. However, it’s important not to assume that you can use “tu” without the other person’s invitation, as it can be considered impolite or disrespectful. Greetings are important. The standard greeting is a handshake when meeting someone for the first time, but with friends or close acquaintances, a kiss on both cheeks is the norm – though the number of kisses can vary depending on the region (can be up to 4!!). “La bise” as we call it can feel unfamiliar, but it’s just part of our culture. Keep in mind, we are not known to be overly touchy people and personal space is respected in most situations. Politeness and Formality. We value politeness and formality. It’s important to address people with their titles, such as Monsieur, Madame, or Mademoiselle, until they invite you to use their first name. It’s also customary to say “Excusez-moi” (Excuse me) when interrupting or approaching someone. When entering shops or restaurants, a polite “Bonjour” is expected before any requests. Public Behavior – we value personal privacy, so you may notice that we are often less likely to engage in small talk with strangers compared to other cultures. In public, it’s important to be respectful of personal space. Tipping is not mandatory: In France, service charges are typically included in your bill, but rounding up the bill or leaving small change is appreciated, especially in cafes and restaurants. Queues are respected; don’t cut in line! Public transport etiquette: Let people exit before entering and don’t be loud. 2. Travel Documents & Money If you’re an EU resident, you can come and go freely, but for others (including British and American passports), you’re allowed to stay in France for up to 90 days within a 180-day period without needing a visa. Ensure your passport is valid for at least 3-6 months beyond your stay. Check the visa requirements based on your country here. Other documents you may need: Money France is very card-friendly, but in smaller towns or for small purchases, you may still need cash. Many places are not using contactless payments and many shops and restaurants have a minimum amount required to use a card. It’s always good to have some euros (€) for small purchases; and it is particularly needed for buses and metros! ATMs are easy to find, but notify your bank about your travel plans to avoid card issues. It’s generally safe to withdraw cash from ATMs, but always check fees before you withdraw large amounts. 3. Eating & Drinking For us, dining is more than just about eating – it’s an experience. When you sit down to eat, it’s a time to truly savor the food, engage in conversation, and enjoy the moment. It’s not the norm to take food “to go” or rush through a meal. Even something as simple as coffee is typically enjoyed while seated at a café or restaurant, often while chatting with friends or people-watching. This slow-paced approach to meals is so ingrained in our culture that it’s even noted in the labor code, which mandates a minimum break time for employees to sit down and enjoy their meals away from desks. Late Dinners – Many restaurants open for dinner around 7:30-8 p.m., and we eat later than in some other countries. Keep in mind that most restaurants in France close between lunch and dinner service (usually between 2 p.m. & 7 p.m.! So be sure to plan

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